And Everything Leads You Into Being, a proud less Heartbreaker.
So, I realize what’s going on in woman brain that people barely could explain, specially woman themselves. The biology of man, is to look for a good looking health woman. He doesn’t give a fuck about the personality, because he knows he can change and control it with the time.
The biological trigger of woman, is mostly and perhaps completely focused in the personality or in a more specific way behavior. She is looking for a lifelong partner who will raise her kids and feed both of them, woman and kids, this is what woman were biologically designed to be.
She would prefer a low level male who would surely keep with her for the rest of her life, than a high level male who would make her pregnant and simply disappear leaving her and the kids unprotected to starve and die.
This explains the fact that you see out there, many high level woman, with low level males.
Another theory of mine is about alpha woman and beta woman, as most of the pick up theories talks about this in mans subject, I realize that this also exists with woman, beautiful woman who are usually very wanted, with a high social value is the alpha woman, these woman, requires more effort and an almost perfect behavior to be conquered. This perfect behavior is not about, impressive behavior, its more like to show genuine interest in keeping up a long lasting relationship with a monogamy promise . A fat nerd can do this, and he wont have to act unnatural for this. She will also require some virtues from the male, like capacity to keep her and the kids feed( money comes on this value). The genetics not to be malfunction (she will usually not fuck around with a dwarf with some exceptions). Well in resume she will look for the best social value male, with the most genuine monogamy promise in her life. She will not fuck around for fun with first good looking guy she sees, just like us man.
Where does all this leads to the tittle of this post?
Males are totally opposite of woman, we want promiscuous fun, like Janka says, we want to spread the seed, we want to mix our genetics with many woman in order to make sure our kids at least most of them have a higher chance of genetically improvement ( this is not a rational desire its biological motivated and emotionally represented). We usually want exactly what woman don’t, have sex for fun, have adventures, feel emotions in a fearless way.
So, in order to obtain what you want, you have to trick woman into thinking that you want a serious relationship or at least give them the feeling that you truly love her, when you actually just want to have fun with her. This is the part where you must have a heartbreaker spirit, you cant be pity of woman, you cant give a shit about their feelings, this is the skill that most of the heartbreakers had like Casanova, Don Ruan, Zorro I don’t know what the hell else. They knew how to trick woman, and they were not pity of them.
I see many man who are angry with woman, because they were nice, and woman flake on them. Fact is, if you are too nice, maybe you don’t look genuine, and woman will flake on you, After a couple nice words you have to be mean( means protective and helpful like a father or a teacher). Then you can have higher chances of success…
Well I don’t catch a lot of girls like Janka or Mystery but I don’t make effort for that also, only when I travel I usually go more for them, In my own city im just a lazy money earner and computer game addicted, and im very happy the way I am
