Basically to choose a good guy you should just NOT FOLLOW ANY OF THIS BULLSHIT!!!!
How to Choose a Good Man
by Lois V. Nightingale, Ph.D.
How does he treat his friends? How does he speak about his friends? (He will probably treat you and speak about you the same way eventually.)
How does he speak about his family, especially his mother? (He will work out his problems with his family on you after you have been with him awhile.)
Does he encourage you to spend time with your friends? (Nothing is worse than a controlling guy.)
Does he encourage you to go after your dreams and goals? (A good guy will not be afraid of you changing and will be excited when you have opportunities to get what you want.)
Does he have goals? (It is great to feel loved and adored, but only by a guy with ambition who is heading somewhere.)
Does he blame or take responsibility for his feelings? (Who does he say is responsible for something he lost, etc? If he always blames someone else for things that happen to him he will eventually be blaming you for how he feels when he is upset.)
Does he let you have some of the spotlight or does he only talk about himself all the time? (A guy who feels good about himself is great, but he should also be proud of you and what is interesting to you.)
Does he have an active spiritual basis? (You want to know he doesn’t think he is the center of the universe.)
Can he accept people different from himself? (Self-confident guys know there are many kinds of people in the world, and this does not threaten them.)
Is he generous with time, compliments, help, money, information, etc? (Stinginess is a sign of fearfulness.)
Can he express how he feels and what he wants? (Guys have a hard time with this, but he should be able to do it once in awhile.)
Does he have good hygiene and show good self-care? (How he feels about himself will show in how he cares for himself.)
Does he think using drugs or drinking is cool? (A guy who numbs his feelings with chemicals will be a lousy boyfriend.)
Is he jealous and makes you tell him where you are all the time? (A jealous guy is insecure and scared that he isn’t a “good catch.” He feels you could do better than him. You can.)
Does he have good ways of dealing with his anger? (If not, he will eventually turn his outbursts on you.)
Small minds talk about other people.
Average minds talk about things.
Great minds talk about ideas.
©2001 Lois V. Nightingale, Ph.D. Clinical Psychologist (lic# PSY9503) director of the Nightingale Center for Mind/Body Health in Yorba Linda, Ca. 714-993-5343
Monday, June 27, 2011
Something About Information.
What is happening in this world is: Information has became cheap.
We have too much information 99% useless to our brain, its noting new, its noting that's gonna make a real difference, and its hell hard to separate what's good from what is not.
I basically read no books, because I think most of them are crap that shouldn't even exist and should maybe be burn.
I have this big theory that the world wasn't meant to be good, and that there is this strong power pushing us back. And the best way to hold the information is to flood it with trash. That's why when we go to a book store, there is so many books full of noting. Useless books that wont bring anyone anywhere, a real shame to the writer.
That's why I create this blog, ever part of it, is a very important information to a girls head, which will change her way of thinking, to a better, or maybe worst behavior.
Some girls ive sent this which I had personal contact said this is a stupid blog, and that if I send this to her im a bustard also, but I didn't send it with the intention of catching her, I send with the intention of changing her, to become something better, something I would then have the pleasure to seduce, with my favorite Technic, being naturally myself, and not artificialities anything to please anyone.
We have too much information 99% useless to our brain, its noting new, its noting that's gonna make a real difference, and its hell hard to separate what's good from what is not.
I basically read no books, because I think most of them are crap that shouldn't even exist and should maybe be burn.
I have this big theory that the world wasn't meant to be good, and that there is this strong power pushing us back. And the best way to hold the information is to flood it with trash. That's why when we go to a book store, there is so many books full of noting. Useless books that wont bring anyone anywhere, a real shame to the writer.
That's why I create this blog, ever part of it, is a very important information to a girls head, which will change her way of thinking, to a better, or maybe worst behavior.
Some girls ive sent this which I had personal contact said this is a stupid blog, and that if I send this to her im a bustard also, but I didn't send it with the intention of catching her, I send with the intention of changing her, to become something better, something I would then have the pleasure to seduce, with my favorite Technic, being naturally myself, and not artificialities anything to please anyone.
The final conclusion.
My final conclusion about woman in general is, they are stupid.
Why do I come to this conclusion? Facts which happened in my life, my friends like, and general woman behavior.
I will give arguments about it, and im sure all woman know how they are, and how they act. Usually when I talk to woman about this, they don't disagree, because they know im right.
Woman have naturally biologically less brain capacity, and they have no social pressure to become something better, that last one is the main problem.
The advantage of woman is, they are more flexible, and its impressive how they can turn, from water into wine.
Wanna see 2 good examples of woman, who changed their mentality and behavior?
Whores and Pornstars.
They were normal girls until life forced them into change completely their mentality.
By need or opportunity, they jump into it, and become extreme sexual, to the point its even disgusting.
Why do I come to this conclusion? Facts which happened in my life, my friends like, and general woman behavior.
I will give arguments about it, and im sure all woman know how they are, and how they act. Usually when I talk to woman about this, they don't disagree, because they know im right.
Woman have naturally biologically less brain capacity, and they have no social pressure to become something better, that last one is the main problem.
The advantage of woman is, they are more flexible, and its impressive how they can turn, from water into wine.
Wanna see 2 good examples of woman, who changed their mentality and behavior?
Whores and Pornstars.
They were normal girls until life forced them into change completely their mentality.
By need or opportunity, they jump into it, and become extreme sexual, to the point its even disgusting.
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Real Sexual Revolution.
In the year of 2152dc a girl will come to a guy and say, Lets fuck? He will say, sure, but lets do it later, because first we need to talk.
That's what future will bring us for sure.
Girls will learn someday to have pro active skill, they will learn to choose guys, and have sex for fun only. That's the point where they will totally leave animal and religious sense of ethics behind.
Who will start it? Me, I hope so, because Ive a big karma with this kind of stuff, perhaps that's the reason why I feel so interested on this subject.
Who will give girls information?
School? School is only for useless theories they will teach girls how not to get deceases and how not to get pregnant, and some other technical issues, but nobody in this society will ever tell them, how to choose a man, and how to have fun with her pussy.
Her father will never tell her that, Her mother also.
Guys who goes for her with sexual intention wont take the risk of doing that, otherwise they will probably loose the chance to fuck them.
Books: huge fountain of useless written shit. I wonder why are there so many books, and why are there so many stupidities in our society at the same time? Is that because people are too lazy to read, or simply because they are not interested and not able to understand it?
Anyway, Girls, have fun, fuck around like a rabbit, but don't fuck with the wrong guys, and mainly, NEVER EVER make kids with them. Otherwise you are just helping human race to become even worst.
That's what future will bring us for sure.
Girls will learn someday to have pro active skill, they will learn to choose guys, and have sex for fun only. That's the point where they will totally leave animal and religious sense of ethics behind.
Who will start it? Me, I hope so, because Ive a big karma with this kind of stuff, perhaps that's the reason why I feel so interested on this subject.
Who will give girls information?
School? School is only for useless theories they will teach girls how not to get deceases and how not to get pregnant, and some other technical issues, but nobody in this society will ever tell them, how to choose a man, and how to have fun with her pussy.
Her father will never tell her that, Her mother also.
Guys who goes for her with sexual intention wont take the risk of doing that, otherwise they will probably loose the chance to fuck them.
Books: huge fountain of useless written shit. I wonder why are there so many books, and why are there so many stupidities in our society at the same time? Is that because people are too lazy to read, or simply because they are not interested and not able to understand it?
Anyway, Girls, have fun, fuck around like a rabbit, but don't fuck with the wrong guys, and mainly, NEVER EVER make kids with them. Otherwise you are just helping human race to become even worst.
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